Summer Youth group learns at Calvary

Father Andrew of Ss Peter and Paul Catholic Church teaches the Summer Youth Group.

What better place to learn about the physical and spiritual aspects of death than Calvary Cemetery on a beautiful Friday in June?

That was the experience the Summer Youth Group “ABLAZE” from Ss Peter and Paul Catholic Church (SSPPCC) enjoyed a week ago.

Their spiritual guide was Father Andrew Whiting, pastor of SSPPCC. Calvary Caretaker Terry Miller provided knowledge and insights regarding the physical matters.

“It was such a beautiful day…God was smiling on us,” remarked Beverly Miller, Director of Youth Ministry at SSPPCC.

According to Beverly, the group’s focus involved the Devotion to the Sacred Heart. Father Andrew spoke about Purgatory and the benefit of living prayers for the souls of the deceased.

“I think that talk on the Power of Prayer had a big impact on our group. To know that their prayers could do something for those souls who can’t help themselves…that was significant,” said Beverly.

Terry gave the group a tour of the chapel, entertained them with the history of the cemetery and talked about some of the biggest monuments on the property, including the majestic Kron Angel.

Strange spring continues at Calvary — Memorial Day Mass canceled

Last year it was monsoon rains. This year the pandemic is causing a cancellation of Calvary’s most celebrated event: Memorial Day Mass.

According to Caretaker Terry Miller, this second cancellation is as unprecedented as the first. Prior to last year the event had never been cancelled during his tenure as Caretaker.

A familiar sight at Calvary in the Spring — stone artist Tom Miller working on headstones.

Terry said the grounds crew has been working hard anyway, getting Calvary to tip top shape in spite of quarantine.

While the event is not going to happen, people are visiting Calvary. Traffic, in the form of cars, walkers and joggers alike, is at an all-time high.

“Even though there is no Mass on Memorial Day, visitors on that weekend would be smart to park on Goodyear Avenue and walk in to visit,” said Terry. “I assume it will be crazy busy especially if the weather is nice.”

(Just a reminder to all visitors — all ground decorations must be removed by Monday, June 1st. No glass containers are allowed. For permanent pot stands please contact the cemetery. Seasonal flower watering services are available; please call Hunter Wick at 507.327.0940.)

The current quarantine has not stopped, and possibly boosted, the number of cremation burials this Spring. Terry reports that he and his crew has been very busy dealing with those.

Editor’s Note: Calvary families and friends are still welcome to send in a donation via the U.S. Postal Service.

California dreaming for Terry Miller

Remember the thrill of crossing off that last bucket list item?

Recently trusty Calvary Caretaker Terry Miller got to scratch a life-long itch when he visited two cemeteries catering to the rich and famous in Los Angeles, California.

“I dunno, it might seem a little strange,” said Terry. “But it really was a dream for me to see the final resting places of some of the celebrities I grew up with.”

Terry happened to be in Los Angeles on other business but managed to break away to visit two cemeteries famous for…well, the famous.

One was tiny 2.5 acre Westwood Village Memorial Park Cemetery, tightly wedged into West LA. This quiet, well-kept oasis houses the graves of many household names:

  • Jim Backus
  • Rodney Dangerfield
  • Richard Dawson
  • Farrah Fawcett
  • Eva Gabor
  • Merv Griffith
  • Florence Henderson
  • Hugh Hefner
  • Don Knotts
  • Jack Lemmon
  • Walter Matthau
  • Marilyn Monroe
  • Carroll O’Connor
  • Natalie Wood

“I’ve been around cemeteries and grave sites all my life, but it kind of gave me goosebumps to see some of these graves,” he said. “You know, when I was in college, every guy I knew had that poster of Farrah Fawcett.”

“I mean, these are the people I saw on TV every week…Archie Bunker, the Brady Bunch mom, Florence Henderson, Dean Martin. It was almost eerie to see Marilyn Monroe’s headstone.”

Terry was also able to visit 200-acre Forrest Lawn Cemetery in Hollywood. With 25 burials a day on average, this bustling park also holds globally-known celebrities:

  • Gene Autry
  • Tom Bosley
  • Edgar Buchanan
  • Bette Davis
  • Sandra Dee
  • Carrie Fisher
  • Andy Gibb
  • Stan Laurel
  • Liberace
  • Penny Marshall
  • Ozzie Nelson
  • Freddie Prinz
  • Debbie Reynolds
  • John Ritter
  • Telly Savalas
  • McClean Stevenson
  • Jack Webb

“It was nice to get away from the winter here for a while, but this was really something I wanted to do for a long time,” said Terry. “I will say that these cemeteries were well-kept, but I still think Calvary is prettier!”

Calvary gets Christmas gift from Shamp Painting

Steve Shamp prepares the work area in the Calvary Chapel basement.

Shamp Painting got the jump on Calvary’s upcoming 125th anniversary celebration in 2020 by completely repainting the walls in the Calvary Chapel basement.

This generous Christmas gift was the brainchild of Charlie Shamp, according to Calvary Caretaker Terry Miller.

“This is part of ongoing work to get ready for next year when we have our anniversary celebration,” said Terry. “We’ve already launched the ‘Fund the Fence’ project, worked on road repair and extensive pruning and landscaping improvements on the grounds.”

“I can’t thank Charlie, the Shamp Painting crew and Diamond Vogel Paints enough,” said Terry. Shamp Painting and Diamond Vogel donated all material and labor.

The muscle and skill for the project was delivered by three generations of the Shamp family: Charlie, his son Steve Shamp, and Steve’s son, Chris Shamp, along with their helper, Crystal.

Chris Shamp applies paint to one of the walls in the Calvary Chapel basement.
Crystal works on surface preparation.

Christmas wreath sales hit record…big thanks to all

The holiday spirit is clearly visible at Calvary Cemetery with a record number of Christmas wreaths now decorating the grounds.

According to Calvary Caretaker Terry Miller, Christmas wreath sales at Calvary hit an all-time high this year of 277.

“Thanks for all your support! Calvary families always come through in helping keep our cemetery a beautiful and special place,” said Terry.

“The wreath sale is a great fundraiser. We continue to raise money for our “Fund the Fence” project and have already reached 35% of our goal,” he noted.

Terry was referring to the current project to replace the aging cyclone wire fencing along Goodyear Avenue with a more appropriate, visually-appealing “wrought iron” style fence. That funding drive continues with hopes that year-end contributions will push funding closer to the target goal of $80,000.

To make a contribution, or find out more, call Terry at 507.995.1010.

Now taking orders for Christmas wreaths…

It’s hard to think about the holidays without remembering Christmas past and departed loved ones.

Christmas Wreath

If you’d like to decorate a loved one’s grave with some holiday color, Calvary Cemetery is now taking orders for Christmas wreaths. Ordered wreaths will be placed on graves the week of Thanksgiving and will be removed after New Year’s Day (weather permitting).

These 25-inch wreaths are Balsam Fir and feature a red bow with white-tipped pinecones.

To order your wreath for $25, call Terry Miller at 507.995.1010.

All Souls Day Mass draws a full house

Father Paul celebrates All Souls Day Mass at Calvary Chapel on Saturday, November 2nd

Calvary Chapel was packed full on Saturday morning as over 70 people braved a chilly morning to warm up body and soul with some spiritual reassurance of eternal life.

Father Paul van de Crommert of Holy Rosary Catholic Church celebrated the Mass. His welcome message recognized that many there may be feeling the recent loss of a loved one, and emphasized the importance of prayer for those who have departed.

In light of recent funeral and burial trends inconsistent with Catholic Church guidance, Father Paul took the opportunity to clarify why the Church prefers traditional burial and under what circumstances the Church allows cremation.

Two examples of those inconsistent trends: scattering cremated ashes or keeping the ashes of the departed at home. Father Paul quoted a treatise from the New Ulm Diocese:

“St. Paul and the earliest Christians often referred to Christians who had passed away as “those who have fallen asleep” (1 Cor. 15:18) They believed that the bodies of the dead would one day be reunited with their souls in heaven, just as Christ’s body was raised from the dead and ascended into heaven. Traditional burial has always been a way that Christians placed the bodies of “those who have fallen asleep” to rest until they are raised again. In non-Christian religions cremation represented either the soul being freed from the body as from a prison, or the end of the individual’s existence altogether, beliefs that are contrary to the Christian faith. It is because of our deep reverence for the human body an dour hope in the resurrection, that we prefer to “lay our brother / sister to rest” in traditional burial.”

According to the treatise, the Church allows cremation when the following conditions are met:

  • Whenever possible, the body should be present for the funeral. It can be subsequently cremated, either immediately following the funeral or at a later time.
  • The remains must be stored in a worthy vessel (an urn which is made of solid material, beautiful and dignified.
  • The remains must be buried in a sacred place, that is in a grave or entombed in a mausoleum or columbarium.
  • A memorial plaque or stone should mark the place where the remains are buried.
  • The remains may not be scattered on the sea, from the air, or on the ground, or kept in the home of a relative or friend. No part of the remains should be separated out from the whole, nor may they be preserved in mementos, pieces of jewelry, or other objects.

All Souls Day Mass on Saturday, Nov 2nd

Calvary Cemetery Chapel will be the site for a special All Souls Day Mass to be held on Saturday, November 2nd at 9:30 a.m.

Father Paul
Father Paul

Father Paul van de Crommert of North Mankato’s Holy Rosary Catholic Church will be the celebrant. Father Paul is also actively serving on the cemetery’s board of directors.

Confused about All Souls Day, All Saints Day and Halloween?

The Catholic Church celebrates All Saints Day, or All Hallows, on the first day of November each year. Therefore the last day of October is All Hallows Eve, or Halloween (a contraction of “All Hallows Evening). November 2nd is All Souls Day. According to Catholic Online (www.catholiconline.org), here is the difference in the celebrations:

In Western Christian theology, the day [All Saints Day] commemorates all those who have attained the beatific vision in Heaven. It is a national holiday in many historically Catholic countries. In the Roman Catholic Church, the next day, All Souls’ Day, specifically commemorates the departed faithful who have not yet been purified and reached heaven. Catholics celebrate All Saints’ Day and All Souls’ Day in the fundamental belief that there is a prayerful spiritual communion between those in the state of grace who have died and are either being purified in purgatory or are in heaven (the ‘church penitent’ and the ‘church triumphant’, respectively), and the ‘church militant’ who are the living. Other Christian traditions define, remember and respond to the saints in different ways.

Halloween is not a religious celebration in the Catholic Church. It is a popular celebration revolving around the theme of using humor to confront the power of death.

Busted at last!

“Here is the proof!”

Over the years, every now and then some Calvary patrons entertain the notion that other visitors, or even the caretakers, cause harm to graveside flower displays.

Caretaker Terry Miller was overjoyed to finally catch this fawn enjoying the Calvary buffet. Although deer sightings are frequent, catching one in the act is rare.

“We do not cut or destroy the people’s flowers,” Terry assured.